Employee Grievance Discussion Summary

Hi everyone! Fellow nerds! I had a rough week at work. I received a poor performance report for my main job as a Medical Assistant (M.A.), and it really affected me. I told my boss that I believe people at work are resentful of my progress as a man. Since I’m just as handsome as they are pretty and capable of doing the job well, I think that makes them dislike me. I shared with my boss that I experience this kind of treatment often. My immediate supervisor suggested I file a grievance, but I don’t plan to. This is the kind of treatment that those of us who stand out deal with in the workplace; we’re not often liked, and we receive unjust poor performance reviews that are fueled by envy from those who may not be as talented. The major complaints seem to come from Dr. Mills. I feel that she and M.A. Velasco don’t like me, or they might be trying to compete with me. This is a common issue for intelligent and good-looking men. When a man is both intelligent and attractive, especially if he is purpose-driven and simply there to do his job, it can infuriate others. Many women are used to men vying for their attention, so when I show no interest, it can bruise their egos to the point where they want to see me fired. I told my boss that the most disliked person in the workplace tends to be the good-looking, purpose-driven man. Again, he suggested I file a grievance, but I told him there’s nothing to file because, unfortunately, an attractive and focused man often faces universal disdain. I’ve also heard complaints about me making inappropriate jokes. I’ve noticed married correctional officers at work getting inappropriate with married M.A.s, and nothing seems to be done about that. As I explained to both of my bosses, my poor performance review is rooted in my attractiveness and my refusal to pursue anyone romantically; I'm simply here to fulfill my job duties. I discussed this with my main doctor, who believes I do an outstanding job. I don’t understand why my coworkers don’t speak to her about it. This feels like a battle of the sexes, especially since there are more women than men in the workplace. On a lighter note, I managed to get a Spectrum internet bundle that includes internet and cellphone service for $51.25 a month. Maybe this is God's way of rewarding me for dealing with the negativity at work with great deals on internet service and cellphone bundle. I’ve also been given a nickname at work: "Fuenteasy," which is short for "I am a tease." This shows me that the women at my job are upset because I’m not pursuing them. They seem to have inflated egos about their looks and expect every man to want them. When I don’t show any interest, it frustrates them. I also received an invitation from a gay coworker to attend a rave. I looked at him with a clear "No!" His invitation was probably his way of saying, "Leo, if you want those female, twenty-something M.A.s to give you a better review next time, you should consider being gay." I have no plans to do that. I'm perfectly content being straight and enjoying video games and movies. Lastly, I have to admit that I just HTE PEOPLE! Until next time! MAHALO!

Employee Grievance Regarding Disciplinary Action and Perceived Targeting

Hiya, Nerds!!! Fellow Weirdos!!! I had a bad week. I was written up for something that everyone else does at the group home where I work. I was accused of not doing therap our documentation app and sleeping on the job, but honestly, everyone does that. I'm starting to feel like I'm being targeted for firing. After the write-up, I sent a text highlighting all the hard work I do, and that led my boss to suggest I speak with HR about it. It feels like all of this is a clear sign that I'm going to be fired when I meet with HR. This treatment isn't just at this job; it seems to happen at every job I've had. It's as if I’m being hated for no reason. I guess being handsome is somewhat of a curse in the workplace. The HR meeting is scheduled for March 23rd, and payday is on the 25th, which feels convenient for them because they can just hand me my final check right then and there, right? Yesterday, there was a meeting where one of the main supervisors wanted to talk to both me and my other immediate supervisor. During the meeting, she yelled at me about how everyone has been complaining about me for months. I seriously doubt that's true; if I had been such a problem, they would have let me go by now. It felt like she was just trying to make me seem like a bad person and a bad worker. I barely got a few words in, and she snapped at me, saying, "Don't overtalk me," even though I wasn't interrupting her at all. After about 20 minutes of yelling, she concluded the conversation with, "That's it. See you at HR." It seemed like her conscience couldn't take it, especially because I know I’m a good person. Afterward, she walked to her car and drove off. This is how someone who doesn't drink and works out is treated—like crap! It seems like, in society, you have to actively try to destroy yourself to fit in. I remember my training at Omni Family Health, where my trainer bluntly said, “You are fucking stupid,” and I pushed back hard by yelling at her. After me yelling at her real good, she quit her job. Score one for the athletes—that’s what I said. Nobody likes us. After the meeting with my two supervisors at the group home, I was sent home. Yesterday, when I clocked in, my co-worker, who just primarily passes meds and cooks, did nothing while I worked hard. He even slept through most of the shift like he always does. He won’t receive a write-up for that, but I will be the only one getting in trouble because I actually care about my health and my job. The plight of the "Chosen One" is that people will hate you for no reason, even if you are nice to them. If you're not a drunk or an alcoholic, you'll often be treated poorly at work. Those in your community will keep tabs on you, and if you go to a bar to order a diet coke, you'll get hounded there too, with people pretending to be friends just to get you drunk. Being a casual drinking "Chosen One" feels like it could lead to the worst consequences for me because of my light. I fear that if I do this, become a casual drinker, no one will want to associate with me, I will lose my job at the prison, and ultimately becoming homeless. I can already imagine some of the people I made look bad at work seeing my downfall and looking down on me for becoming an alcoholic. Living life sober as a "Chosen One" is hard; I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy, and… I hate people!

Personal Grievance and Job Concern Log

Hello, fellow nerds, weirdos, and wackos! Another week has gone by, and I'm facing more drama in my life! It just seems never-ending. I received a write-up for not completing the bed checks at the group home, and honestly, I'm not sure how much longer I will last at my job. I don’t feel liked by any of the staff there; they never seem to socialize with me and often isolate me in the corner. This feels like the story of my life so far in Bakersfield. I've had to raise myself and find girls to lose my virginity by myself to because no one else is there for me. I’ve had to be my own best friend, and it seems like nobody cares. I don’t blame the city of Bakersfield for this, as I believe I would experience the same treatment anywhere else in the world. Sadly, good people today seem to be so isolated. It feels like most people are crazy and don’t want to associate with someone as pure as me—perhaps my light exposes their demons. We all know light makes evil flee. Still, it would be nice to have a few friends along the way to hell, you know? Someone to confide in, yet it seems that as a "Chosen One," God doesn't want these heathens to get their hands on me. Anyway, I'm planning to have a meeting with my boss and the higher-ups about what's going on at the group home. I just hope this isn't a precursor to getting fired because I need to pay off my brand-new car! LOL! I feel like God spoils me; most people can't afford a new car, so I should be thankful that He has blessed me more than the rest of these psychos! If I could just stay at my job for a few more months to pay off my car, I would truly appreciate it. In addition, at my other job at KVSP, I had an incident with another Medical Assistant who complained that I said, "I need to drain the lizard" and took it out of context as something sexual, which led to a complaint to the boss. This is the second time I've been complained about, and it's getting really annoying! It feels like it's me against the world for some reason. I also think I'm in a secret competition with one of the correctional officers at work who seems to be vying for the attention of the women. This C.O. is about ten years younger than me but looks twenty years older; I must trigger his insecurities and massive ego. I'm pretty sure he has one; most alcoholics do. Alcohol tends to boost your ego for no reason, while I don’t drink, so I don’t have a big ego or an imaginary scoreboard to compete with other men. I honestly never compete with other men, which might be why I keep winning these pointless contests. From my experience, when you don’t compete, there has to be a winner and a loser, and if you exclude yourself from the game, you automatically win. That's probably why the men at my job seriously dislike me—I keep winning these imaginary competitions! LOL! I really hate people. I hate them so much! MAHALO!

Workplace Grievance Log Entry

Hey Nerds! I had an okay week, but I continue to be treated poorly at both of my jobs for no apparent reason. The women, in particular, seem to mistreat me by either ignoring me, purposely avoiding me, or in the case of my job at Kern Valley, making me do their work. They also report me for no reason. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t say anything without them complaining. Some of these women have huge egos! They act like they know everything, and if they don’t like you, they won’t hesitate to tell someone. It's sad to see that nowadays, it's the good-looking, athletic men who seem to be the "Nerds", while the so-called “ugly” men are often approached by women and flirted with and are now the "Heros". This is a reversal from the past when movies like *Revenge of the Nerds* portrayed unattractive men as the losers. Now, in the 21st century, it seems that handsome men like myself suffer while others, including beta males and gay men, receive more attention and admiration. This what happens when women are given too much leeway to choose their partners instead of giving the choice to men; we end up with a topsy-turvy situation where good-looking, athletic guys like me are marginalized. Just the other day, I was making small talk with a girl at work, I was not flirting or anyhitng and she intentionally tried to walk away from me as if she didn't hear anyhitng I said, while the gay guy she was with, she hung on his every word. It seems like women just look down on good-looking men after high school, and other "Ugly" men do too. As a result, we face double the negativity at work and everywhere else. Nobody seems to like Good Looking men. I think those who treat me badly assume my life is easy or that I have many friends and girlfriends, so they keep their distance. What they don't realize is that everyone thinks that way, which leads everyone to stay away from me. This is why many good-looking men who are also kind end up as nerds with no romantic prospects. We often turn to gaming, and even then, we’re verbally attacked or overlooked because others think they’re "cool." Society seems to imply that as good-looking men, we cannot also be good people. We’re expected to be the bad guys; otherwise, we’re shunned or mistrusted. Movies and media have portrayed attractive men as villains who mistreat women, but that’s not reality. Many genuinely good-looking men are also truly good at heart, but most people won’t accept that because they’re constantly exposed to harmful stereotypes in films. Consequently, good men who also look good often endure unearned pain and suffering, leading to lives devoid of marriage, children, or normalcy. This is why I consider myself a "Chosen One"—I believe that God wouldn’t want a good man like me to lose hope and consider drastic actions due to the verbal abuse I face simply because I’m better looking than others. Until next time! I hate people! MAHALO!